Planet Improv has just begun its second year of collaborating with YWCA Central Carolinas and their summer learning programs.
Listening is one of the most important skills we can learn in all aspects of our personal and professional lives.
Listening is one of the most important skills in improvisational theatre.
What do these three statements have in common?
I found myself listening, truly listening, to a YWCA summer learning group of which I was facilitating for the first time.
It was a mind-blowing experience.
(Below) is a post from www.resilienteducator.com the importance of listening from both the perspective of the educator and the student.
When Teachers Become Better Listeners, Students Become Better Learners — Here’s Why
Margaret Steen
Teachers spend a lot of time talking: explaining, leading conversations, giving demonstrations. But listening can be equally powerful — and it’s a skill that not everyone masters, often because people don’t realize its importance.
Gillian Parrish, a research and communications specialist at the Teaching Center at Washington University in St. Louis, says educators are increasingly recognizing the importance of listening as well as talking. She offers three reasons listening is crucial to building a good classroom culture:
- When people listen to each other, new ideas take shape
Parrish likens a discussion when participants ask questions and then listen to the answers to “an open window, open to whatever comes in.” This opens all participants to new ideas and helps them really understand them.
“Listening is the zone in which inquiry happens, in which questions arise and tug at us and the seeds of ideas germinate,” Parrish said. “There is a growing awareness that as educators in today’s polarized yet shrinking world, opening up spaces in ourselves and our classrooms is a way of modeling dialogue, collaboration, curiosity, creativity and compassion.”
- Being listened to deepens student learning
When students feel they are genuinely part of the conversation, they are more likely to really understand what they are learning and remember it.
“The effect of a good listener on student learning is electrifying,” Parrish said. “When students are heard, when their insights strike their listener, when their questions open up discussions, when their ideas are taken up and explored sincerely, then they blossom.”
This type of open-ended conversation can move students from being passive consumers of information to more self-directed learners.
- Listening well helps the teacher learn, too
Not every lesson lends itself to a conversation between students and the teacher. But when teachers are engaging students in a discussion about the meaning of what they have learned — the causes of the French Revolution, for example, or the implications of a recent scientific discovery — the conversation will be more rewarding for the teacher and the students if people are listening to each other.
This means more than simply pausing to let the other person speak.
“Think back to those teachers that really cared about what you had to say, that heard your words and were sparked by them, that really took in your questions and mulled them over themselves, even if they are old questions in that field,” Parrish said. “That kind of listening makes our classrooms into vibrant learning communities.”
Our culture is often easier for extroverts than for introverts, which means it “tends to be afraid of silence,” Parrish said. That’s why it’s so important to both tell students what good listening can accomplish and model it for them.
The pause after a question doesn’t have to be an awkward silence: It can be the space where deeper ideas take root.
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I hang my head in shame that I am not a better listener.
Over two decades of improvisational theatre training and educating should have sunk in better by this time.
Name every impolite and/or incorrect thing one can do while having a conversation and I probably am guilty of it/them.
When one has the traits of an entertainer, they are used to communicating non-stop.
However, most real-life conversations, while they might contain sections of entertainment, are mostly instruments for passing information back and forth.
Half of the conversation should be talking, and half the conversation should be listening.
It took way too long, but I think I am starting to understand how important the listening part of the conversation is.
I appreciate it more than I ever have before, and believe me, the persons and students with whom I communicate appreciate it also.